Christine Browne: Homosexuality, Lesbianism, Gay Marriage.

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Title

Christine Browne: Homosexuality, Lesbianism, Gay Marriage.

Subject

Stories and memories of LGBT life in Cork City and County.

Description

Christine talks about realising she was gay, talking to boys but being attracted to women. Christine speaks about her experience of coming out to her family and friends. Christine also describes her time working in a laundrette, Duds n Suds on Douglas Street.
She discusses the experience of having a child with her partner, about others’ reactions to their son having two mothers, and about difficulties it posed in relation to her legal role in regard to her son and to claiming benefits.
She talks about the labels ‘gay’, ‘homosexual’, ‘lesbian’ and comments on Gay Pride. She comments on the issue of gay marriage and how she and her partner are treated by the local community.

Date

6 August 2014

Identifier

CFP_SR00516_browne_2014

Coverage

Cork, Ireland, Douglas Street, 1980s-2010s

Source

Cork Folklore Project Audio Archive

Language

English

Type

Sound

Format

1 .wav File

Interviewee

Duration

85min 21sec

Location

Mallow, Co. Cork

Original Format

.wav

Bit Rate/Frequency

24bit / 48kHz

Transcription

DC So do you feel in your own little way the small interactions in your everyday life and just been living down here in Mallow and your not the two point four children white picket fence family, that you are a bit alternative that you are making some changes, and sometimes that’s all you need to do, you don’t need to be part of this massive activist kind of group maybe sometimes getting on with your life quietly in the small day to day interactions you are actually making small changes.

CB Without even realising it, yeah, on of, you’ve just reminded me but apologies my pet fly Freddy has come back (laughter), when we had our ceremony our neighbours they used to be ourselves and our other neighbours up the road, we were the only ones here just until recently and we just got to know them, we never said anything and then we were having our ceremony and we invited them and I never forget the wife, she is a lovely lady, Joan and she turned around and she said you know what she said delighted to be invited but I’ve also never been to one of these before and I just wanted to see what way it would turn out and even at the ceremony one of my cousins turned around, I’ll never forget she was walking by me, the language, it wasn’t bad language she said feck sake this is better than my own wedding, heterosexual couple, so we are making probably slight changes as you say but we still get a few little knocks.  There is a crèche here in Mallow that we used to have our son in, we took him out for health reasons for him and the owner turned around and when we were speaking to her she said well we did make allowances for your family unity.  Now when she said it at the time I was, okay fine, we are doing the right thing by taking him out of here and putting him in another place and not a bother, I think we’re, myself and Tracy the ones who are more conscious of peoples reaction, do they think I have lied to them, you know because I haven’t said we are a couple but yeah making small little changes, I wouldn’t be surprised when Sean starts school that there might be another same-sex couple who might be putting their child in cause I remember ringing up.  I rang up last year to put Sean's name on the list and the lady turned around and said you are not living in Dublin dear you can  ring next year and put his name on the list whereas in Dublin when the baby is in the womb you have to put the child's name on the list to get them into the school but this is Mallow I think you could probably put the child's name down a couple of weeks beforehand.  So I just said to her also look I was looking to see if we could meet the principle.  I said em, Sean he has two mothers, I’m assuming I probably shouldn’t but that it was an old dear because there was a bit of stuttering and coughing and pick yourself up off the floor kind of thing, no problem whatsoever whenever you want to make an appointment that’s fine my dear, yeah, you just ring back whenever you are ready and I rang back and it was the same lady, and I said I am looking to make an appointment with the principle to come in just to explain about Sean and that he has two mothers.  Oh, I was speaking to you before, come in whenever you want, there is no problem, come in whenever just call in.  We haven’t gone in, no need, we think if we go in it will kind of make it a bigger thing.  He is going to be bullied, he is going to be bullied anyway everyone gets picked on for something, in my eyes, kids are pass remarkable unless the parents are behind to give them a clip around the ear but eh yeah probably making small changes without even realising it, yeah.

Collection

Citation

Cork Folklore Project, “Christine Browne: Homosexuality, Lesbianism, Gay Marriage.,” accessed April 25, 2024, https://corkfolklore.org/archivecatalolgue/document/86.